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Dying to be thin
“I know I look beautiful, but my sister sitting next to me is a size zero and I am a size two. If I don’t eat lunch today and for the rest of the week, I can see it flowing around my legs and my date dipping me while we dance, and I smile to myself. I need to fit into my dress, its just one week of not eating is what I tell myself. I drop my plate of food in the trash and go to change into clothes for the gym. Three hours later I have finished an intense work-out and I am feeling faint. I lie down to rest before I begin my homework.
Several hours later I am awoken by my roommate who is slightly concerned for me. She says I look sick, I grumble, get up and shower. I know the first day of the diet is the hardest and I push through.
Formal arrives and my dress looks beautiful, at least that is what I think as I look in the mirror and can feel the hunger pains I am ignoring. But when I get to formal, one of my sisters comes up to me and asks me what my secret to staying thin is. Beaming, I tell her working out. But as we are dancing I feel faint, like I can hardly move. My date asks me if I am okay, if I need something to eat. I say I am fine. But he doesn’t believe me. He tells me my dress is hanging off me and I look as if I am going to pass out any minute.
Another of my sisters takes my hand and pulls me into the bathroom. She pulls out of her purse a Chewy bar, saying, “Something to hold you over until the morning.”
As I eat it, she then tells me quietly how I look sick and how beautiful I am when I am healthy. ‘Sisters are the mirrors that let me see me,’ you sing these words weekly, now listen to them. I think you are more beautiful when you look like a healthy women and not like a sickly child. As I protest with what the other sister said, she quiets me and insists that I see the school counselor next week or she will call my mother. I guess the fear in my eyes told her I understood, but was too scared to do anything about it.
The following week I went with her to the counselor. Even though I am on the road to recovery, it is hard when I seem to get mixed signals from sisters complimenting my thinness and ability to not eat every meal. But I realize I need to be the mirror for them and show them how recovery is possibly and healthiness can be achieved.”
-A University of Florida Phi Mu